Sex Tip – Patience- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T.


Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.


Sex Tip- Patience

Men and Women do not have the same physiological make-ups in regards to sex.

Often, in my office, men ask me why women do not have the same sex drive as they do.
According to the research, men think about sex more than 200 times a day. Women……well, they do not.

Are there exceptions to this rule? Yes, just like every other rule. But we are focusing on the mainstream for now.

Patience is a virtue, as they say. And this applies to sex as well. Men can get sexually stimulated in a matter of seconds. Women often take much, much longer. Men need to know this in order to have happy and healthy experiences in and out of the bedroom.

The largest sex organ on women is her mind/brain.

Men, if you want to sexually stimulate your partner, start with her brain.  Compliments, kind words, words of affirmation etc. can be wonderful foreplay. Discuss this with your partner to see what she likes best.

I also have heard from women that doing dishes, folding laundry, emptying the dishwasher (you get the picture) can go a long way in getting a woman in the mood for sex.

Having a satisfying sex life can strengthen the bond between couples. It is also good for your health!

Do you have questions on how to have the most satisfying sex life with your partner and how to increase your ability to be patient?

Call me, let’s chat.

Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T. (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist)


Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc