Is Your Attitude Right for a Relationship?
Relationships take work. We all know this. But part of that work is to have the right attitude.
When seeking a potential partner, an important trait to be aware of is their attitude, as well as your own.
Are they someone who is in the habit of being negative and looking for everything that is going wrong?
If so then this is what you can expect out of your relationship with this person.
Are they someone who is optimistic and is in the habit of being happy? Once again, this is what you can expect out of your relationship with this person.
How about you? Are you someone who looks on the bright side and finds the silver lining? This is an attitude which will be helpful in a relationship as well as in life.
You simply cannot enter into a relationship with someone who complains and sees nothing but problems and then expect them to be different while they are dating or married to you. This would be unrealistic for you to do.
Have you found yourself in a relationship with someone with a negative attitude? Or are you possibly the one with the negative attitude?
Call me, let’s chat.
Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T. (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist)
Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc