So you are working on rebuilding trust in your relationship. I know you are not happy about being in this situation however I commend you for trying to make it work. You must have had some form of infidelity in your relationship and now you are doing what you can to see if you can […]
What Happens If I Wait Too Long To Get Counseling? You have been thinking about getting your relationship back on track for a while. Maybe you or your partner are a little skeptical about seeing a therapist and telling them all of you personal business. Perhaps your partner is refusing to go to counseling. […]
You are in a fight with your partner. It may be a little fight or it may be World War 3. You want some time to clear your head and think about things. You need time to take a breath so you don’t say anything you will regret.
So, your relationship has lost its spark and you are wondering how to get it back. You may be wondering if it is even possible to get it back.
3 Tips On How To Improve Your Relationship Communicate, Communicate, Communicate…Clearly A wise man once said that a person can never be too clear. Communication issues are often at the root of most relationship problems. Most arguments are due to misunderstandings or miscommunications. You are not the poster child for communication and that […]
Does Marriage Counseling Work? Well, that all depends on you. It is like asking if going to a gym works. They both can work as long as you are willing to put in the effort and honesty to get the most out of your time. The success rate increases significantly when a client comes to […]
How Do I make My Relationship Better? This is a concern most couples have. Who would not want to have their relationship be as healthy as possible? There are many factors which can play into having a great relationship. One of the many factors is to have good BALANCE in your […]
Three Tips to Increase Positive Feelings Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Positive feelings…they are not as elusive as many people believe them to be. Many people believe they are powerless when it comes to their feelings. Well, good news! You have a whole lot more power than you probably believe! Research suggests that our minds […]
Most Common Mistake Couples Make When It Comes To Counseling Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Hello. I am Laurie Shoats. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years experience. People often ask me what is the most common mistake couples make when it comes to therapy. The answer is simple. Most […]
Why Is Being A Mom So Overwhelming? So, you are a mom. You are tired, exhausted and overwhelmed. Out of all the moms I have counseled since I began my journey as a Marriage and Family Therapist (almost 30 years ago) this is one of the most common themes I hear in my office. Moms […]
