How much are you willing to invest in your relationship? – Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Many people have common misgivings about relationships. Often they believe that everything will just ‘fall into place’ because ,”we love each other”.
This is simply not the case.
Twenty-five years of couples counseling has revealed many things to me and one of the most important ones is that relationships take work!
The most you ‘invest’ in your relationship, the larger the ‘ROI’ (return on investment).
Putting your relationship on ‘automatic pilot’ is s surefire way to crash.
Working on your relationship involves being willing to love your partner the way they want to be loved as opposed to how you want to love them. You need to know their language of love and become fluent in it. I recommend reading Dr. Gary Chapman’s book The Five Love Languages to better understand how your partner wants to be loved.
Do you need to become more fluent in your partner’s language of love?
Call me, let’s chat.
Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T. 954.802.1601
Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc