Another Parenting Tip on Raising Emotionally Mature Children
Children need to feel discomfort as kids so they can handle discomfort as adults. Should we as parents intentionally inflict discomfort onto our children? No, of course we should…
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Do you ever get stressed/anxious/depressed? When you do, be aware that this is usually a result of the thoughts you are thinking.
Your past thoughts are about events that are no longer real. The negative experiences that happened in the past…
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What is my partner saying?
Have you ever noticed that your partner’s language is not the same as yours? Of course you have! You may both be speaking English but the words are definitely used differently.
This is something I see multiple…
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So, your partner cheated on you. Now you are not sure what to do. All you know is that you are hurt beyond belief, you cannot sleep, you cannot eat due to that lump in your throat and the sick feeling in your stomach.
Believe it or not,…
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How To Get The Spark Back Into Your Relationship
Have you lost the spark in your relationship? Are you looking at your partner in a different light than you did in the beginning? Are things getting a little boring?
If you answered ‘yes’,…
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A Tip for Men- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Men, are you struggling to be able to communicate better with your partner? If so, you are not alone.
Having worked with couples for almost 30 years I have seen many men say that their…
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I am seeing a marked increase in worry/anxiety and panic attacks in clients over the last several years. People hypothesize that it is due to both regular media and social media. Whatever is the cause of it, you will be better off if you are…
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Sex Tip- Patience
Men and Women do not have the same physiological make-ups in regards to sex.
Often, in my office, men ask me why women do not have the same sex drive as they…
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Is Your Attitude Right for a Relationship?
Relationships take work. We all know this. But part of that work is to have the right attitude.
When seeking a potential partner, an important trait to be aware of is their attitude,…
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Sex Tip
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Have you ever wondered why men and women behave differently after sex? If you have then you are not alone.
There is a hormonal component driving the gender differences in post-coital behaviors.
One…
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