Self-care is NOT Selfish
I have been working with people for over 25 years now. A common trend I see much more prevalent in women than men is guilt associated with self -care.
Men have an easier time engaging in their hobbies ( a form…
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"Revenge, anger, and hatred are exceedingly low energies that keep you from matching up with the attributes of the universal force. A simple thought of forgiveness toward anyone who might have angered you in the past will raise you to the level…
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Who Controls Who? ~Are you Reactive or are you Proactive?
“It’s not my fault! You made me mad! I had no choice!”
Have you ever heard those words or even said those words?
A…
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Why Can't You Understand Me? Two Techniques to Understand Your Partner--Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Understanding...something we all crave and need in a relationship.
Why is it so difficult?
As I have written in prior blogs, men…
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So I Have Decided to See a Therapist. Does This Mean I am Crazy?
Congratulations! You have made a very difficult decision. You have decided it is time to iron out some wrinkles in your life. You now recognize that you are sick and tired of…
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Do You Talk Too Much or Not Enough?- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Communication....such a big buzz word now-a-days.
How much is too much and how much is not enough?
What kind of communication is necessary in a healthy relationship?…
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Another Difference Between Men and Women - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
We already know there are countless differences between men and women.
Some of these differences greatly affect the quality of an intimate relationship.
I see…
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Two Most Important Things in a Relationship
Many people ask me what is the secret to a happy, healthy relationship.
Having been a Marriage and Family Therapist for 25+ years, I believe I am in a pretty good position to propose a response…
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How much are you willing to invest in your relationship? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Many people have common misgivings about relationships. Often they believe that everything will just 'fall into place' because ,"we love each…
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Life Tip #1 – Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Having been a Marriage and Family Therapist for over 25 years, I have learned quite a few “what to do’s” and “what not to do’s” in life. I have seen numerous common themes hundreds…
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