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Most Common Mistake Couples Make When It Comes To Counseling - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
BlogMost Common Mistake Couples Make When It Comes To Counseling
Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Hello. I am Laurie Shoats. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years experience.
People often ask me what is the…

Your Past Thoughts
BlogDo you ever get stressed/anxious/depressed? When you do, be aware that this is usually a result of the thoughts you are thinking.
Your past thoughts are about events that are no longer real. The negative experiences that happened in the past…

Why Can't You Understand Me? -Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
BlogWhy Can't You Understand Me? Two Techniques to Understand Your Partner--Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Understanding...something we all crave and need in a relationship.
Why is it so difficult?
As I have written in prior blogs, men…

So I Have Decided to See a Therapist. Does This Mean I am Crazy? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
BlogSo I Have Decided to See a Therapist. Does This Mean I am Crazy?
Congratulations! You have made a very difficult decision. You have decided it is time to iron out some wrinkles in your life. You now recognize that you are sick and tired of…

How Much Are You Willing To Invest In Your Relationship? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
BlogHow much are you willing to invest in your relationship? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Many people have common misgivings about relationships. Often they believe that everything will just 'fall into place' because ,"we love each…

What to expect out of your first few sessions of counseling at Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
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At Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc., my clients enjoy real life solutions they can take home and begin using immediately. My clients often report being pleasantly surprised at how easy it is to get benefits from counseling.
You can…

Can a couple get past infidelity? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.
Blog, UncategorizedCan a couple get past infidelity? Yes! It is possible! It takes work but it is possible for a couple to heal from an affair. It will take a lot of courage, character and the willingness of that partner who committed the adultery to take an honest…