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What is my partner saying?

What is my partner saying? Have you ever noticed that your partner’s language is not the same as yours? Of course you have! You may both be speaking English but the words are definitely used differently. This is something I see multiple…

Sex Tip - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Laurie Shoats LMFT

Sex Tip Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Have you ever wondered why men and women behave differently after sex?  If you have then you are not alone. There is a hormonal component driving the gender differences in post-coital behaviors. One…

Social Media and Relationships - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. - Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T.

Social Media and Relationships - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Hello, friends. If you are reading this then odds are that your relationship is being affected by social media in one form or another. When I was learning about psychology…

Self-care is NOT Selfish- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Self-care is NOT Selfish I have been working with people for over 25 years now. A common trend I see much more prevalent in women than men is guilt associated with self -care. Men have an easier time engaging in their hobbies ( a form…

Another Difference Between Men and Women - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Another Difference Between Men and Women - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. We already know there are countless differences between men and women. Some of these differences greatly affect the quality of an intimate relationship. I see…

How Much Are You Willing To Invest In Your Relationship? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

How much are you willing to invest in your relationship? - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Many people have common misgivings about relationships. Often they believe that everything will just 'fall into place' because ,"we love each…
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Emotional Intelligence- How Well Do You Know Your Feelings And The Feelings Of Others Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Blog #18 Emotional Intelligence How Well Do You Know Your Feelings And The Feelings Of Others Emotional intelligence can be described as the ability to recognize your feelings as well as other people’s feelings and how to appropriately…