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One Important Thing People Forget When Trying to Rebuild Trust

So you are working on rebuilding trust in your relationship. I know you are not happy about being in this situation however I commend you for trying to make it work. You must have had some form of infidelity in your relationship and now you…

What Happens If I Wait Too Long To Get Counseling - Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T.

What Happens If I Wait Too Long To Get Counseling?   You have been thinking about getting your relationship back on track for a while. Maybe you or your partner are a little skeptical about seeing a therapist and telling them all…

How Do I Get My Spouse To Give Me Space To Clear My Head In A Fight? -Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

You are in a fight with your partner. It may be a little fight or it may be World War 3. You want some time to clear your head and think about things. You need time to take a breath so you don't say anything you will regret.

How to Avoid Misunderstandings in Relationships~ Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

How to Avoid Misunderstandings in Relationships~ Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. Do you and your partner argue at times only to realize that one of you misunderstood something? And that the misunderstanding caused the argument? If…

More Differences Between Men and Women's Ways of Thinking- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Real Life Solutions Counseling/Blog More differences between men and women's ways of thinking The more you understand the differences between a man's way of thinking and a woman's way of thinking, the better equipped you are to have a healthy…

What NOT to expect from your therapist

I would like to clear up a misconception about therapists. So often, people think therapists are here to give advice. This is simply not the case. Imagine how dependent a client would become on their therapist if their therapist were the…

Insider Information Into a Man's Mind/Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Blog #21 Insider Information Into a Man’s Mind/Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. November 2015 We have already determined that there are many significant differences between men and womens’ brains. One of the many things my female…
Four Intersting Facts about Narcissists. Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Four Interesting Facts about Narcissistic Personality Disorder- Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Blog #20 October 2015 Four Interesting Facts about Narcissists. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a fascinating personality disorder. I often have clients come in and want to know if they are in a relationship with a narcissist or if…

Healthy Boundaries - Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Blog #19 Healthy Boundaries October 2015 Having healthy boundaries in a relationship can mean the difference between a long and happy marriage and an unhealthy one. Boundaries can be explained as your personal comfort level with certain…
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Emotional Intelligence- How Well Do You Know Your Feelings And The Feelings Of Others Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc.

Blog #18 Emotional Intelligence How Well Do You Know Your Feelings And The Feelings Of Others Emotional intelligence can be described as the ability to recognize your feelings as well as other people’s feelings and how to appropriately…